The heart has reasons that reasons does not know. But right now, my heart is set in a self-destructive mode.

I remembered I was watching this show on tv the day before and there was an interview with David Tao. The host was asking him about his love life cos he wrote the song "Melody" for his ex-gf, Melody. Then the host asked him"Why are u men like that? When you break up with a girl only to realise that she is the one for you, why do you still let her go?" He answered:"After a certain period of time, things change. The love you have for a girl does not become love, but you love her out of sorriness for having taken up so much of her time being together with you and it all ends up in a failed relationship". I cant remember the details in between, but then he went on to say "You can love a person for many reasons; you may love her because you feel sorry for her, you may love her because you have been together with her for many years, you may love her because she has done many things for you and you are touched".

Till now, I still cant forget what David Tao said. I cant judge based on my experience, but I kinda have to agree to what he says, esp the back part. You may love a person because that person has done a lot for you, and you love the person because you are touched by the person. Things will defintely change over time, esp when 2 ppl are in different geographical areas. When its time to let go, you will have to let go even if you still like that person.

Okie, you guys may argue with me but these are just my thoughts. I remember saying this to my best friends "The heart has reasons that reason does not know. But right now, my heart is set in a self-destructive mode".